I hear your Michael, and yet, blaming and demanding from women is exactly the kind of behavior that leads to more distance.
I don't see her list as being anyway wrong, though I can appreciate how it may come across as lacking. I fully agree there's lots that we *all must look at.
As men though, irregardless of what women are or aren't doing, we must begin the process of turning towards each other and away from needing women, even if rightly so, they have a part to play. Are you part of a men's group? If not, I highly recommend that as a start.
Also, having read Ossiana's articles for a while now, she's far from misandric.