I see a lot of fist shaking, there’s much to shake a fist at. But being angry and demanding does nothing.

This comes from an asian american man whose dating range within that 95% is far, far, far lower than the average white man. I could, and have, shaken my fist, and have found it does nothing.

An invitation for change goes a long way but a bridge is needed. When building bridges one side Has to go first.

Are you waiting for women to go first? What if they don’t? Throwing stones at the other side while standing at a chasm does no one any good.

I hear you’re angry. What will you do with it? Words typed are cheap. Accountability with and towards other men is what’s needed, and missing.

This stands independent of the injustices of our modern culture and is irrelevant to what can be viewed or named as the lack of accountability from women.

Are you willing to resolve and grapple with sadness and frustration in a healthy way? Are you leading or just throwing stones?

My 2c.