Justin H. Lee
Feb 28, 2022

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This one’s confusing for me.. I grew up in a predominately white area, and as such.. it seems I have a thing for white women. Is it nature, is it nurture? Does it actually matter?

To be clear, it’s not that I haven’t or wouldn’t date those of the global majority, but my primal preference seems to be towards Caucasian women.

Does that make me a racist? Or a socialized human who simply accepts that my body is pulled towards what it likes, more so than what it doesn’t? I don’t know, it certainly is confusing at times.

Articles like this don’t exactly help ha. There certainly seems to be a lot of nuance between preference and dismissal.

All that said, the irony of course is how many women who I find attractive won’t “date an asian.”

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Justin H. Lee
Justin H. Lee

Written by Justin H. Lee

Human/Being • Expat in Asia • Connection Facilitator • Slightly Angsty • Writes on Mental Health, Relationship Dynamics, Man Stuff, and Heart-Forward Leadership

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